The household of the prophet (sallalahu alayhi wassalam)was a house of ibaadah!
* When your husband/wife is about to drink water ....
- Yaa habeebi/ Yaa Habeebatii (My love), have u said "bismillah"?
* When you are about to go and take your bathe in the bathroom with your spouse, grab him at the back and say....
- Yaa habeebi/ Habeebatii, have u supplicated?
* When your husband/wife refuses to wake for Tahajud, Remind him/her....
- Wake up, prayer is better than sleep, fight your desires my love, be stronger than the excuses shaitan whispers to you"
If he/she doesn't still get up, sprinkle water on him/her.
If he/she doesn't still get up, start reciting your own Quran and recite it aloud so that he/she will feel shy to continue sleeping while u are reciting the Quran! He, especially, will be forced to stand up
* When ur husband/Wife is about to eat, tell him....
-Yaa habeebi/ Yaa Habeebatii, have u supplicated?"
* After the meal....
- Yaa Habeebi/ Habeebatii, have u thanked Allah?
* When ur husband returns from work in the evening....
- Sweetheart, did u give out something in charity today, Even if its a date?
* At least once in a month ....
- My husband, since u are not going to work today, won't you perform ziyarotul kuboor? Won't u visit d muslim graveyard to ponder over death?
* During the Weekends....
- My Love, shouldn't we visit our parents and relatives? Remember d prophet (sallalahu alayhi wassalam) said we should NOT severe the ties of kinship
* Every Monday and Thursday....
- Yaa Habbeebi/Habeebati, won't you take a fast today?
- On E'id day....
Husband: Darling, remember eid is wajib, even if u are menstruating, won't u dress up and follow me?
* When Spouse returns from workplace....
- Abu/Ummu, Did u take a moment to recite atleast a page of the Qur'an while u were at work?
* Every evening...
- Husband: My wifey, u know I spent all day at work, did you teach my kids something from the Quran before they went to bed?
* Every day....
- Husband: Honey, did you teach my kids the stories of the salaf today?
* Before your wife steps out of the house....
- Husband: Madam, Haba! Fear Allah woman, won't you wear your jilbab before stepping out of the house? BarkaLlahu feekum
* Husband suddenly sags his trousers....
- Wife: Fear Allah my dear, do not go close to the hell fire, raise your trousers pls
* Husband feels like shaving his beards ....
- Wife: what? I will not look at ur face again if u do it. Pls my husband, Baale mi (Akanji), seek refuge in Allah from the whispers of shaitan
Brothers and sisters in Islam, We all pray that to Allah to grant us spouses that will HELP us to Jannah....
But after marriage, we hardly "assist" each other to jannah! Some husbands are scholars but they don't do dawah at home, whereas the outsiders benefit from his dawah!
Some wives are AFRAID to correct their husbands bcos some bully their wives!
Its better to correct ur husband even if he will become UPSET than for u to keep quiet while he HAPPILY commits sins! You wil regret ur SILENCE on the last day
Let's all fear the day when fear itself will also be afraid
Many husbands will enter hell while the wife wil enter jannah and many wives wil enter hell while the husband enjoys the hur al ayn in jannah
If u wanna be wit ur spouse in jannah YOU HAVE WORK TO DO
Keep enjoining #maruf and keep forbiding #munkar
Marriage is not all about fun all over the house, the life of a muslim is all about supplication
Ask your partner on Jummah Day(have u recited surah khaf today?).
There is nothing in this world that is worth entering hell fire for!
note: you can learn from this even if you are not yet married!!!
May Allah bless us, our families and grant us jannah out of His mercy, Aameen.
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