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Friday 19 August 2016

Never Stop Making Tawbah

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PLS READ, IT S FASCINATING AND EDUCATIVE!!! 

One night Muhammad ibn al Munkadir was crying so violently that his family got extremely worried and
called the great scholar Abu Hazim to calm him down.
Abu Hazim asked him 'my brother what has made you cry so much, and you have made your family
worry about you?'
Muhammad replied 'I read an ayah in the book of Allaah and it brought me to these tears' he was then
asked what the ayah was. Muhammad responded, 'it is the statement in which Allaah says "And there
will appear to them from Allaah, that which they had not taken in to account.''
Upon hearing this ayah, Abu Hazim became so emotional that even he started crying.
Think of standing before Allaah swt on the day of judgment thinking I have done da'awah, and prayed and
read Qur'aan that there will be no major sins on my scale on the day of judgment, .....and then suddenly
sins appear that I had not even taken in to account.
What if I sinned but shaytoon made me forget to make taubah...? or what if i committed a sin for which
my taubah was not accepted?
What if i hurt someones' feelings and didn't know but they held it against me?
What if I teach someone an evil thing & they went ahead teaching others! Alloohu Akbar!
I ask al-Afuw (the one who erases sins) to not just cover my sins but erase them and wipe the slate
clean.
WaLloohi I think good of Allaah, but i am scared and so should you on the basis of a dream that the uncle
of the Prophet (SollaLloohu 'alayhi wa sallam) had;
Abbaas states 'I had not seen a person better than 'Umar, he spent his nights praying, his days fasting
and fulfilling the needs of people.
When he died I asked Allaah to show him to me in a dream. Allaah showed him to me, I saw him walking
through Madinah. I asked him "what did you find after death?" and 'Umar replied "i have just finished
being questioned, my throne (position as a ruler) almost caused me to fall, except that I found a
Merciful Lord"
Even the son of 'Umar , AbduLlaah ibn 'Umar saw his father in a dream and asked him how long his
questioning had lasted in the grave, and 'Umar responded 'it has just finished and when he woke he
realized it had been 12 years since the death of 'Umar!
Bear in mind this is 'Umar we are talking about, the man that the Prophet said would be a
Prophet, if there was to be a Prophet after him, the man that the shaytoon was scared of and would run
across the street if he saw him, the man that opened up more territory for the Muslims under his rule
than any other! And he was not spared from questioning... 12 yearrrrrrs in the grave!
Make taubah now, in the 3rd part of the night, ask Allaah to forgive you for your sins and to not hold you
accountable for that which you have not taken in to account for He is the best of those who are merciful.
BarakAllaahu fih

Marraige Preparation

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MARRIAGE PREPARATION by Ustaz Imtaz yacoob.     BE ROMANTIC: A MUST READ FROM A-Z

Carry her to her bed when she sleeps off in the parlour, make her feel like a baby at times. The truth is, every woman wants to be treated like a 2-year old girl atimes. That's why women behave childish or silly sometimes. You may have an argument with your wife and the next thing is that you will see her taking your bags outside the house, it doesn't mean she is asking for a divorce, she is just being childish, she simply wants you to hold her, look her in the eyes and say " I am sorry for the argument".That's women for you. Every brother needs to study the University of women before getting married, read books about them, learn what the prophet (SAW) said about them and what Allah said about them, and you will hardly have a problem with them. Though you will still have problem(s), because a woman is always a woman and her imperfections are there. Even the wives of the prophet were like that despite their ilm, heekmah and understanding of the deen except Khadija bint Khuwaylid. She was the best among them, she was known as taheraah(the pure), she never shouted at the prophet even though she was old enough to give birth to him, she was the best wife material, a home maker, a sealed nectar, extremely beautiful, the creme of Quraysh, sweet scented musk, stainless and untainted to the extent that Allah even sent Angel Jibrael to greet her (As salamu alaykum). SubhanAllah! So brothers, read books about marriage, an ideal home, child upbringing, fiqh of marriage and the likes. Don't just jump into marriage with an empty head about matrimony! You will have problems.
Even the wife of Umar R.A was once shouting and yelling at him at the top of her voice, a man wanted to come and complain of the same issue to him but was surprised when he heard similar thing happening to Umar. Umar called him and the man explained his reason for coming, Umar told him that; my wife takes care of the house, do the dishes, feed the animals, bake bread, feed my children and takes care of me even though all these are not binding on her, why shouldn't I also ignore her imperfections?
My brother, go and do the same to your wife, and be patient and kind to her for there is no perfection in this world, and rely on Allah, this world is very short ! SubhanAllah !
How many men can tolerate their wives nagging let alone shouting?
Umar said, you should be quiet when your spouse is angry, when one person is fire, the other person should be water. Brother ! when your wife steps on your feet intentionally or mistakenly, don't let your eyes turn red, just smile at her, if she did it intentionally she is just playing with you, if she did it mistakenly its not her fault. So, why shout at her over every small mistake? As a man learn to ignore some things, don't be petty !
Do hide and seek with your wife, sing poems for your wife in the garden or inside the house, even if she is yabbing you. Assist her in house chores and some other things, don't just be commanding her everyday. Bath together with her, wake her up for tahajjud, swim with her if you have the means. Cook together, teach her how to cook if she doesn't know how to. Cooking shouldn't be only a woman's duty...
Use blindfold to cover her eyes and tickle her, scare her atimes, call her from work, text her, write
"I love you" in a small note and put it under her pillow or in her purse or in her bathroom  or inside her cupboard. All these are part of being romantic.
When a woman tells you that you are not romantic, It means you are not doing all these things, it's not the romance in the bedroom  she is talking about! That's why brothers we need to study "women's language" ....

Now sisters, its also part of your duty to be romantic too. Shyness doesn't mean you should be shy to express your love for your hubby, some women think that 'haya' means you should be tough even to your hubby, your husband is now your mahram by virtue of marriage.
There are 3 kinds of mahram:
-by blood,
-by kinship and
-by marriage..
Send sweet text to your husband at work, sometimes even if you are together in the same room with your husband chat with him on social networks, even though he is right there beside you it's fun !
You should be mostly chating with your husband, not non-mahrams on social networks. Buy affordable gift for him no matter how small it's enough for you to win his heart 💝 💘 e.g.  flowers. When eating atimes use your spoon (or hand) to feed him like your baby 😊 , learn how to make snacks, cokies etc to make him happy... Sister! use your soft voice to sing for him, be creative, a poem like (twinkle twinkle lovely spouse, how I wonder what you are, up above my world so high, like a diamond in my heart). Sing poems for him, no shyness there. Al khansaa and khawlaa bint azwar used to sing, ibn qayyim and imam shafi used to compose poems. It's sunnah... When your husband has gone to work, clean the house and tidy up yourself don't let him come back and see you the way he left you in the morning, cook his favourite food frequently, make it ready for him  on the dining table or a safe place, tidy up yourself and the entire house again and wear a seductive dress so that when he comes back from work the first thing he will see is his pretty darling wife dressed as a better person (new bride). His love for you will surely increase by the day... Everybody can be romantic whether poor or rich you can do it at your on level, it's all about contentment !

Don't just be welcoming your husband with an angry face because their is no money in the house or you're not in good mood at least smile :) , Allah is Ar-razaq, he is the provider. Welcome him with a warm hug always ( don't be shy 🙈 he's your property 👍 ), and when he is going to work, make dua for him to return safely. Support him, advise him, wipe his tears, be grateful to him because it's not easy to be a man, when you see his Iman depreciating preach to  him,
-don't ask him for divorce,
-don't compare him with other men interms of richness,
-don't describe women to him,
-buy gifts for him too, cat-walk for him, sing for him,
-praise him in a way that he wouldn't think of a second wife  ,
-be the best cook ,
- tidy up his car (or bike if has), dress him up, take care of  him when he's sick...
Wake him with a peck and don't complain about his earnings..
Ask him to teach you about hadith, fiqh, seerah, usool and others..

Umar ibn khattab said,
"Be good to ur wives," be like a kid to her in the bedroom, but when things get tough stand up and act like a man... Brothers don't just jump on ur wives like animals, the prophet (SAW) said, "when any of you meet his wive(s), let there be a messenger (kissing 👄) between you and her"....(muslim)
Start with foreplay then others...
Read books on intimacy, don't learn it from what you see in movies !
Most of what you see are haram...
Always call your husband with special names, be creative 😊 !
Though you can also call him by his name even if he is 20yrs older than you, as far as he is comfortable with it...
Remember that Allah said, men are the protectors and maintainers of women. So respect him and honour him even if he is younger than you. Marriage isn't a bed of roses but a bed of sacrifice...  The prophet said, "there is nothing better for two people who love each other than marriage"... Imam ibn qayyim said; "To fall in love is a disease and its cure is to marry the person one is in love with."
Love is when you take away the feeling, the passion and the romance and you find out you still care for that person....

Finally, married men, divide your nights into 3: one for yourself (sleeping), one for your wife and one for your lord. That's the best night..May God help us all..Ameen...

Hadeeth Of The Day

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Hadeeth of the Day--(Yawmul jumu'ah(Friday), Dhul-Qa'dah 16th, 1437 AH)

Topic: Don't Envy Your Brother Or Sister

Abu Hurairah may Allah be pleased with him narrated that Allah's Messenger said:
"Avoid envy, for envy devours the good deeds just as fire devours firewood."
[Reported by Abu Da'ud, Bulugh Al-Maram, Ch.4, Hadeeth No.1277].

Message:
Envy or Jealousy refers to a person who is envious of another person's possessions and desires that that person be deprived of them and at the same time aspires for those advantages for himself. This is forbidden. Jealousy is one of the major vices as it nullifies good deeds.

There is no need for anyone to lose before you gain. Life is full of multiple opportunities. Take your chances. We can all make it in our own ways.

Note:
After eating: 1) Thank Allah for the food 2) Thank the chef 3) praise the taste of the food 4) avoid discussing any fault in the food.

Monday 15 August 2016

TOILETING SEEMS A CASUAL BUSINESS, BUT DANGEROUS IF NOT DONE PROPERLY

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TOILETING SEEMS A CASUAL BUSINESS, BUT DANGEROUS IF NOT DONE PROPERLY. 

Rasulullah SAW said

اكثر عذاب القبرمن البول. (ابن ماجه‏)
Most of the punishment in the grave are due to poor way of urination. 

HOW

1, when urine splashes on your clothes or body, while urinating. 

 2, Or when out of impatience, you didn't allow urine to drain out sufficiently before you pull up your clothes. And you have it dripping on your inner wear (very poor personal hygiene, apart from being source of punishment in the grave.

3, or worse still, you as a Muslim, you go to the loo, gents/ladies, convenience, or toilet without water. Not because of unavailability of water, simply because, you aren't use to it (horror! )‎ 

The Prophet consistently ask us to seek protection from Allah from punishment of the grave. 

And he said if not for the fear of people not burying their dead again, he would have beg Allah to allow us to hear the cries of those being punished in the grave. We seek Allah protection from that. 

HOW DO YOU CORRECTLY URINATES 

1, if you are sitting, sit properly, and don't allow any splashes on your clothes. 

2, Gather up your clothes around you very well. 

3, If it's public toilet, offices, airports, hostels, in aircraft, etc clean up the edges of the water closet, before you sit down. The non complying ones, who urinate standing, would have generously soiled the edges with their urine. Clean properly before sitting down. 

4, urinating is a task you don't rush. Be patient, and allow complete drain of urine before, you clean up with water.

5, Sometimes you are on a journey, ‎or anywhere at all, where you don't have the luxury of organised toilet. When you have to urinate on hard ground. Do your best to avoid splashing. If a man, do it while crouching. At standing, roll up your trousers. Apart from cleaning up, I advise, you sprinkle water on your legs. 

May Allah ease our task for us. Aameen ‎

Sunday 14 August 2016

The Ideal Muslim Home

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The household of the prophet (sallalahu alayhi wassalam)was a house of ibaadah!

* When your husband/wife  is about to drink water ....
- Yaa habeebi/ Yaa Habeebatii (My love), have u said "bismillah"?

* When you are about to go and take your bathe in the bathroom with your spouse, grab him at the back and say....
- Yaa habeebi/ Habeebatii, have u supplicated?

* When your husband/wife refuses to wake for Tahajud, Remind him/her....
- Wake up, prayer is better than sleep, fight your desires my love, be stronger than the excuses shaitan whispers to you"

If he/she doesn't still get up, sprinkle water on him/her.
If he/she doesn't still get up, start reciting your own Quran and recite it aloud so that he/she will feel shy to continue sleeping while u are reciting the Quran! He, especially, will be forced to stand up

* When ur husband/Wife is about to eat, tell him....
-Yaa habeebi/ Yaa Habeebatii, have u supplicated?"

* After the meal....
- Yaa Habeebi/ Habeebatii, have u thanked Allah?

* When ur husband returns from work in the evening....
- Sweetheart, did u give out something in charity today, Even if its a date?

* At least once in a month ....
- My husband, since u are not going to work today, won't you perform ziyarotul kuboor? Won't u visit d muslim graveyard to ponder over death?

* During the Weekends....
- My Love, shouldn't we visit our parents and relatives? Remember d prophet (sallalahu alayhi wassalam) said we should NOT severe the ties of kinship

* Every Monday and Thursday....
- Yaa Habbeebi/Habeebati, won't you take a fast today?

- On E'id day....
Husband: Darling, remember eid is wajib, even if u are menstruating, won't u dress up and follow me?

* When Spouse returns from workplace....
- Abu/Ummu, Did u take a moment to recite atleast a page of the Qur'an while u were at work?

* Every evening...
- Husband: My wifey, u know I spent all day at work, did you teach my kids something from the Quran before they went to bed?

* Every day....
- Husband: Honey, did you teach my kids the stories of the salaf today?

* Before your wife steps out of the house....
- Husband: Madam, Haba! Fear Allah woman, won't you wear your jilbab before stepping out of the house? BarkaLlahu feekum

* Husband suddenly sags his trousers....
- Wife: Fear Allah my dear, do not go close to the hell fire, raise your trousers pls

* Husband feels like shaving his beards ....
- Wife: what? I will not look at ur face again if u do it. Pls my husband, Baale mi (Akanji), seek refuge in Allah from the whispers of shaitan

Brothers and sisters in Islam,  We all pray that to Allah to grant us spouses that will HELP us to Jannah....

But after marriage, we hardly "assist" each other to jannah! Some husbands are scholars but they don't do dawah at home, whereas the outsiders benefit from his dawah!
Some wives are AFRAID to correct their husbands bcos some bully their wives!
Its better to correct ur husband even if he will become UPSET than for u to keep quiet while he HAPPILY commits sins! You wil regret ur SILENCE on the last day

Let's all fear the day when fear itself will also be afraid

Many husbands will enter hell while the wife wil enter jannah and many wives wil enter hell while the husband enjoys the hur al ayn in jannah

If u wanna be wit ur spouse in jannah YOU HAVE WORK TO DO

Keep enjoining #maruf‬ and keep forbiding #munkar‬

Marriage is not all about fun all over the house, the life of a muslim is all about supplication

Ask your partner on Jummah Day(have u recited surah khaf today?).

There is nothing in this world that is worth entering hell fire for!
note: you can learn from this even if you are not yet married!!!
May Allah bless us, our families and grant us jannah out of His mercy, Aameen.

Tuesday 9 August 2016

Who Is Prophet Muhammad (S.A.W)

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Who Is the Prophet Muhammad ?

Muhammad  was born in Makkah in the year 570.  Since his father died before his birth and his mother died shortly thereafter, he was raised by his uncle who was from the respected tribe of Quraysh.  He was raised illiterate, unable to read or write.                       His people, before his mission as a prophet, were ignorant of science and most of them were illiterate.                                                        As he grew up, he became known to be truthful, honest, trustworthy, generous, and sincere.  He was so trustworthy that they called him the Trustworthy.                                    Muhammad  was very religious, and he had long detested the decadence and idolatry of his society.
At the age of forty, Muhammad  received his first revelation from God through the Angel Gabriel.  The revelations continued for twenty-three years, and they are collectively known as the Quran.

As soon as he began to recite the Quran and to preach the truth which God had revealed to him, he and his small group of followers suffered persecution from unbelievers.  The persecution grew so fierce that in the year 622 God gave them the command to emigrate.  This emigration from Makkah to the city of Madinah, some 260 miles to the north, marks the beginning of the Muslim calendar.

After several years, Muhammad  and his followers were able to return to Makkah, where they forgave their enemies.  Before Muhammad  died, at the age of sixty-three, the greater part of the Arabian Peninsula had become Muslim, and within a century of his death, Islam had spread to Spain in the West and as far East as China.  Among the reasons for the rapid and peaceful spread of Islam was the truth and clarity of its doctrine.  Islam calls for faith in only one God, Who is the only one worthy of worship.

The Prophet Muhammad  was a perfect example of an honest, just, merciful, compassionate, truthful, and brave human being.  Though he was a man, he was far removed from all evil characteristics and strove solely for the sake of God and His reward in the Hereafter.  Moreover, in all his actions and dealings, he was ever mindful and fearful of ALLAH

Sunday 7 August 2016

How can I act in accordance with the meanings of these names of Allah: al-Ahad, al-A‘laa, al-Akram and al-Awwal?

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How do i act upon these names of allaah and apply in my life: [al ahad] [al alaa] [al akram] [al awwal]


Praise be to Allah
al-Ahad, al-A‘laa, al-Akram and al-Awwal are among the beautiful names of Allah. 
Allah, may He be exalted, says (interpretation of the meaning):
Say (O Muhammad (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him)): ‘He is Allah, (the) One [al-Ahad]’” [al-Ikhlaas 112:1]
Glorify the Name of your Lord, the Most High [al-A‘laa]” [al-A‘laa 87:1]
Read! And your Lord is the Most Generous [al-Akram]” [al-‘Alaq 96:3]
 “He is the First [al-Awwal] (nothing is before Him) and the Last (nothing is after Him), the Most High (nothing is above Him) and the Most Near (nothing is nearer than Him). And He is the All‑Knower of every thing” [al-Hadeed 57:3]
Al-Ahad (the One) is the One who is unique, Who is consistently one, and there is no other with Him. He is One and unique in His Oneness, in His Essence, and in His Lordship, in His divinity, and in His names and attributes. 
Shaykh as-Sa ‘di (may Allah have mercy on him) said: 
(al-Waahid, al-Ahad), the One and only: He is the One Who is unique in all His perfect attributes, in which no one else has any share with Him. People must affirm His Oneness in belief, word and deed, by acknowledging His absolute perfection, affirming that He is unique in His oneness, and devoting all kinds of worship to Him alone.  [Tafseer as-Sa‘di (945)] 
Acting in accordance with the meaning of this name means acknowledging that Lordship belongs to Allah, may He be exalted, alone, for He alone is the Creator, Sovereign and controller. That is to be followed by not associating anything with him in worship, and by striving for His sake, striving hard to be sincere to Him alone, may He be glorified, in all our words and deeds. 
Shaykh ‘Abd al-‘Azeez al-Jaleel (may Allah grant him success) said: 
The greatest impact and implication of these two divine names – al-Waahid and al-Ahad – dictates that we must believe that Lordship and divinity belong to Allah, may He be glorified and exalted, alone, and we must affirm that He is one and unique in His deeds and attributes, and the deeds of His slaves should be devoted to Him alone. As He is one and unique in His Lordship, in the sense that He is the Creator, the Provider, the Giver of life and death, the Owner Who controls His creation as He wills, so too He is One in His divinity, so there is no god but Him alone, with no partner or associate. 
After realising that, a person will be able to affirm his belief in the Oneness of his Lord, may He be glorified, and direct all acts of worship to Him alone – may He be glorified and exalted – as none is deserving of worship except Him alone, may He be glorified. 
When this belief is firmly rooted in the heart, it will inevitably show in a person’s words and deeds, and in all of his faculties; so he will not bow, or pray, except to Allah alone, with no partner or associate, and he will not put his hopes in anyone, or call upon anyone, or ask of anyone except Allah, may He be glorified and exalted. He will not seek help or seek protection except from Allah alone; he will not fear anyone except Allah alone; he will not put his trust in anyone except Him alone. 
The point is that one of the implications of believing in the divine names al-Waahid and al-Ahad is that one should turn to Allah, may He be glorified, and be devoted to Him alone, and call upon Him, love Him, and venerate Him, revere Him, fear Him, put one’s hope in Him, put one’s trust in Him, and devote all kinds of worship to Him alone. 
This means that one will love Him alone, may He be glorified and exalted, and show loyalty to Him alone. Allah, may He be glorified, says (interpretation of the meaning):
Shall I take as a Walee (helper, protector, etc.) any other than Allah, the Creator of the heavens and the earth?” [al-An‘aam 6:14]
Secondly: hearts will be attached to their Creator, the One Whom they worship, and they will turn to Him alone, with no partner or associate, because He is al-Waahid al-Ahad, to Whom all creatures turn for their needs and necessities. He has power over all things, is the Sovereign of all things, the controller of all things. 
These feelings bring relief and comfort to people’s hearts, and keep them from feeling scattered and disturbed. They make them feel a sense of contentment in turning to their Lord, the One whom they worship, and lead them to no longer put any hope in those who have no power and are not able to do anything except what Allah enables them to do, for they have no power to benefit or harm themselves, let alone anyone else. 
These feelings make a person give up any hope in created beings and make him focus his attention and turn for what he wants to His Creator and Maker, the One Whom he worships, al-Waahid, al-Ahad, as-Samad (the One, the Unique, the Eternal). Thus he finds comfort and peace of mind, because he has focused his attention and turned with all his heart to Allah alone, and he is not turning in many directions, to partners who are at odds with one another, where he would find himself stuck between them, mired in confusion, worries and bitter conflict. 
Allah, may He be exalted, gives us a likeness of the one who worships one God – namely Allah, may He be glorified and exalted – and one who is confused between various gods, who enslave him and tear him apart. 
Allah, may He be exalted, says (interpretation of the meaning):
Allah puts forth a similitude: a (slave) man belonging to many partners (like those who worship others along with Allah) disputing with one another, and a (slave) man belonging entirely to one master, (like those who worship Allah Alone). Are those two equal in comparison? All the praises and thanks be to Allah! But most of them know not” [az-Zumar 39:29]
If a person devotes his entire life to achieving this great goal, which is worshipping Allah alone, then everything in his life will be used to achieve that goal; thus he will protect his time and his life from being wasted on anything other than this goal. Therefore he will be very careful with his precious time and numbered breaths, lest they be wasted for no purpose. Rather he will use all his time and the very minutes of his life in that which will bring him benefit in the hereafter, such as doing righteous deeds, calling people to Allah, striving in jihad in His cause; he will regret any minutes of his life that he wastes more than he would regret missing out on everything in this world. Therefore he makes the most of the blessings of free time, good health, wealth and youth, utilising them to obey Allah, may He be glorified and exalted, before they are gone. Even his times of rest, leisure and pleasure he intends as worship of Allah, may He be glorified and exalted, so that they may give him energy to do further acts of obedience, after relaxing and re-energising. 
End quote from Wa Lillahi al-Asma’ al-Husna by ‘Abd al-‘Azeez al-Jaleel (114-117) 
Al-A‘laa (the Most High) is the One Who is most sublime and exalted in all aspects. 
As-Sa‘di (may Allah have mercy on him) said:  
Al-‘Aliy, al-A‘laa (the Exalted, the Most High) is the One Who is most sublime and exalted in all aspects, in Essence, in esteem and attributes, and in terms of prevailing over all others.
He is the One Who rose over the Throne and is the ultimate Sovereign; He is the One who possesses all attributes of greatness, pride, majesty, beauty and all other perfect attributes, and His attributes are the most perfect. [Tafseer as-Sa‘di (p. 946)] 
For more information, please see an-Nahj al-Asma fi Sharh Asma’ Allah al-Husna by Muhammad al-Hammood an-Najdi (1/321-337) 
Acting in accordance with the meaning of this name means, first of all, understanding what is meant by the exaltedness of Allah, the Most High, the Most Great. We believe that His Essence is above His Throne, and that He is the Most High in the sense of prevailing over all others. He is the dominant above His slaves, He commands whatever He wills, and He does whatever He wills. He has subjugated all creatures and none can escape His power or control. 
To Him belong the highest status and esteem; His is the highest description (i.e. none has the right to be worshipped but He, and there is nothing comparable unto Him) in the heavens and in the earth. And He is the All-Mighty, the All-Wise (30:27), of the highest esteem. No one of His creation is equal to Him and He is not subject to any shortcomings. 
Then the individual should express his servitude to Allah in accordance with the implications of this divine name. So he submits to his Lord, and feels his utter need for Him and his weakness before Him, acknowledging that He is deserving of all veneration and reverence, and that nothing is hidden from him on earth or in heaven. So he hastens to worship his Lord and he fears Him night and day, remembering that He is constantly watching him in all that he says and does, and showing a great deal of respect to His commands and prohibitions. 
For more information, please see: Wa Lillahi al-Asma’ al-Husna by al-Jaleel (259-262). 
Al-Akram (the Most Generous) is the One Who is very generous and very kind to His creation.  
Al-Khattaabi (may Allah have mercy on him) said: 
He is the most generous of the most generous and no generous one could ever match or equal His generosity. [Al-Asma’ wa’s-Sifaat by al-Bayhaqi (1/148)] 
Abu Hayyaan (may Allah have mercy on him) said: 
Al-Akram (the Most Generous) is a description that is indicative of emphatic generosity, for His generosity surpasses all generosity; He bestows innumerable blessings, shows forbearance to the sinner, accepts repentance and pardons bad deeds.  [Al-Bahr al-Muheet (10/507)] 
Ibn al-Qayyim (may Allah have mercy on him) said: 
Allah, may He be glorified, is self-sufficient, most generous, almighty, most merciful. He is kind to His slave even though He has no need of him; He wants good for him and relieves him of hardship, not because He wants some benefit from the person or in order to ward off some harm from Himself, but out of mercy and kindness. He, may He be glorified, did not create His creation so as to increase His support, or so as to attain pride, or so that they could give Him strength or benefit Him, or so that they could defend Him. [Ighaathat al-Lahfaan (1/41)] 
See also: an-Nahj al-Asma (1/377-392) 
Acting in accordance with the meaning of this name means acknowledging the generosity and the bounty of Allah, may He be exalted, and that His stores never run out and there is no limit to His generosity. So the individual should think positively of his Lord and put his trust sincerely in Him. If he sins, he should repent to Him and turn to Him, and not despair of His mercy, grace and generosity. If he asks of Him, he is certain of a response, and he persists in calling upon Him. 
Shaykh ‘Abd al-‘Azeez al-Jaleel (may Allah grant him success) said:
The effects of believing in these two divine names (al-Kareem and al-Akram) include the following:
1.     Loving Him, may He be glorified and exalted, for His generosity and blessings that cannot be counted or enumerated; striving to make that love a reality by giving thanks to Him, may He be glorified, in one’s heart and in one’s words and deeds; worshipping Him alone; not doing anything but that which pleases Allah, may He be glorified, and striving to keep away from that which incurs His wrath; hastening to repent if one falls into anything that is not pleasing to Allah, may He be glorified and exalted.
2.     Feeling shy and humble before Him, may He be glorified, and observing proper etiquette with Him, may He be glorified and exalted – because, despite the many sins of His slaves, He still does not withhold His gifts and generosity.
This great generosity instils in the heart of the believer humility, humbleness, fear and hope, and it keeps one away from that which incurs the wrath of Allah, may He be glorified and exalted.
3.     Being attached to Him alone, may He be glorified; putting one’s trust in Him; delegating one’s affairs to Him and seeking one’s needs from Him alone, may He be glorified, because He is the Most Generous Whose generosity has no end; the Almighty, for Whom nothing is beyond Him on earth or in heaven; the Ever Living Who does not die – unlike created beings who are usually overtaken by covetousness, and even if a person is generous, his generosity is limited and will cease with his death. He may want to show generosity to others, but his inability to afford it prevents him from doing that.
Allah, may He be exalted, says (interpretation of the meaning):
And put your trust (O Muhammad (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him)) in the Ever Living One Who dies not” [al-Furqaan 25:58]And put your trust in the All-Mighty, the Most Merciful” [ash-Shu‘ara’ 26:217]This makes hope strong, and makes one aspire for His generosity and mercy, and it makes one lose hope in any created beings.
4.     Adopting the characteristic of generosity towards the slaves of Allah, may He be exalted, for Allah, may He be glorified and exalted, is generous and loves those among His slaves who are generous, through whom Allah brings relief to those who are in need, and through whom He grants help to the desperate. The characteristic of generosity that Allah, may He be exalted, loves is not attained by being wasteful and extravagant, and squandering wealth; rather it is a middle path between extravagance and wastefulness on the one hand and stinginess and covetousness on the other.
Imam Ibn al-Qayyim (may Allah have mercy on him) said: Allah, may He be exalted, praises the people of the middle path, who avoid two deviant extremes (with regard to spending), in more than one place in His Book. He, may He be exalted, says (interpretation of the meaning):
And those, who, when they spend, are neither extravagant nor niggardly, but hold a medium (way) between those (extremes)” [al-Furqaan 25:67]And let not your hand be tied (like a miser) to your neck, nor stretch it forth to its utmost reach (like a spendthrift), so that you become blameworthy and in severe poverty” [al-Isra’ 17:29]And give to the kindred his due and to the Miskeen (poor) and to the wayfarer. But spend not wastefully (your wealth) in the manner of a spendthrift” [al-Isra’ 17:26]Therefore denying relatives (kindred), the poor and needy, and wayfarers of their rights is extreme stinginess, and spending wastefully means going to extremes in spending. What Allah likes lies somewhere between the two.
The generosity that is required of people does not stop at generosity in terms of spending wealth only; rather it also includes being generous with one’s status (by using it to help others), being generous with knowledge, being generous with oneself, offering it for the sake of Allah.
5.     Calling upon Allah, may He be glorified and exalted, a great deal, and seeking one’s needs from Him, may He be glorified, no matter how great those needs; and thinking positively of Him, may He be exalted. If there is a delay, or a response to the supplication is withheld, one should not doubt the generosity of Allah, may He be glorified; rather His withholding the need of His believing slave is also generosity and mercy from Him, may He be glorified, for fulfilling the need that the person is beseeching Allah to fulfil may lead to doom in terms of his religious or worldly interests, so by His grace, generosity and mercy, Allah does not answer his prayer, because of what He knows of the harm that would befall him if he were to be granted that.
6.     Al-mukram (the honoured) is the one whom Allah, may He be exalted, honours with faith and guidance, even if he is poor and destitute, and the muhaan (the humiliated) is the one whom Allah, may He be exalted, humiliates with disbelief, evildoing and sin, even if he is rich and promineny, with great wealth and many sons. And whomsoever Allah disgraces, none can honour him” [al-Hajj 22:18]. [Wa Lillahi al-Asma’ al-Husna (594-596)] 
Al-Awwal (the First) is the one before Whom there is nothing 
Muslim narrated in his Saheeh (2713) from Abu Hurayrah (may Allah be pleased with him) that the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace of Allah be upon him) used to say:
Allaahumma Rabb al-samawaati wa’l-ard wa Rabb al-‘arsh il-‘azeem, Rabbaanaa wa Rabba kulli shay’in, Faaliq al-habb wa’l-nawa wa munzil al-Tawraati wa’l-Injeeli wa’l-Furqaan, a’oodhu bika min sharri kulli shay’in anta aakhidhun bi naasiyatihi. Allaahumma anta al-awwal fa laysa qablaka shay’un, wa anta al-aakhir fa laysa ba’daka shay’un, wa anta al-zaahir fa laysa fawqaka shay’un wa anta al-baatin fa laysa doonaka shay’un. Iqdi ‘annaa al-dayna wa aghninaa min al-faqri "(O Allaah, Lord of the seven heavens and the exalted Throne, our Lord and Lord of all things, splitter of the seed and the date-stone, Revealer of the Tawraat and the Injeel and the Furqaan [Qur’aan], I seek refuge in You from the evil of all things You shall seize by the forelock [have total mastery over]. O Allaah, You are the First so there is nothing before You, and You are the Last so there is nothing after You. You are al-Zaahir [the greatest and highest] so there is nothing above You, and You are al-Baatin [aware of the subtlest secrets] so there is nothing closer than You. Settle our debt for us and spare us from poverty).
Acting in accordance with the meaning of this name means acknowledging His  prior grace and mercy. So the individual should think positively of his Lord, and turn to Him in all his affairs, admitting his utter need of his Lord, and the self-sufficiency of his Lord, along with His abundant generosity and bounty. Thus the individual will realise his utter need of Allah and will turn to Him alone in complete devotion. Ibn al-Qayyim (may Allah have mercy on him) said:  
Worshipping Allah in accordance with the meaning of the divine name al-Awwal (the First) means not pinning one’s hopes on means and causes, being content with them and focusing on them, rather one should turn one’s focus completely to His generosity and mercy that preceded the existence of means and causes, for He is the One Who showed kindness without any measures on the part of the individual, because the latter had no power to take any measures when he was nothing and did not exist. What measures could possibly be available at that time, when he was absolutely nothing, and there was over man a period of time, when he was nothing to be mentioned (76:1). 
All plans belong to Allah, may He be glorified, and all help comes from Him; His favour precedes all measures, and measures are nothing but part of His bounty and generosity. 
Whoever understands the divine name al-Awwal in that sense, this dictates that he should feel a sense of great need for his Lord, and will make him a true slave of Allah. 
Worshipping Allah in accordance with the meaning of the divine name al-Aakhir (the Last) also means not putting one’s trust in means and measures or being content with them, for they will inevitably and ultimately come to an end, and there will remain the Eternal after that. So putting one’s trust in them is like putting one’s trust in something that does not exist and will come to an end, whereas putting one’s trust in Allah the Last, may He be glorified, is putting one’s trust in the Ever Living Who will never die and will never cease to exist. So the one who puts his trust in Him will definitely never lose or be cut off, unlike putting one’s trust in anything else, that will have an end after which it will cease to exist. 
This is what one should know about Allah, that He was there before all measures and causes, and by the same token, the one who knows Him as al-Aakhir (the Last) will realise that He will remain after all causes and measures cease to exist. Allah existed when nothing else existed, and all things will perish but He. 
So think about how these two divine names should shape the behaviour of the individual, and how they dictate that he should be sincere in turning to Allah alone and feel that he is in need of Him, to the exclusion of all else; all things begin with Him and will return to Him, for He is the one who initiated His favour and generosity when there were no causes or measures, and to Him all causes and measures will return. So He is the First and Last of all things. 
As He is the Lord of all things, the cause, Creator and maker, He is the God of all things and the ultimate goal, and no one can attain soundness, prosperity or perfection unless Allah alone is his ultimate aim and goal. 
He is the First, Who initiated the creation of all beings, and He is the Last, on Whom all servitude, will and love are focused. There is nothing beyond Allah that could be sought, worshipped or loved, just as there was nothing before Him that was created or made. 
As He is the only One Who brought you into existence, you should make Him the only One Whom you love and worship, so that your servitude will be valid. 
Just as He initiated your existence and your creation started with Him, you should make Him the ultimate focus of your love, will and devotion, so that your devotion to Him on the basis of His names al-Awwal and al-Aakhir will be sound. 
Most people worship Him on the basis of His name al-Awwal, but what matters is to worship Him on the basis of His name al-Aakhir. This is the way of servitude of the Messengers and their followers, for He is the Lord of the Worlds, the God of the Messengers, glory and praise be to Him. End quote. 
Tareeq al-Hijratayn (p. 19-20) 
One of the most important things that we must do with regard to His beautiful names is to ask of Him by virtue of them, and seek to draw close to Him by virtue of them, as He, may He be exalted, says (interpretation of the meaning):
And (all) the Most Beautiful Names belong to Allah, so call on Him by them” [al-A‘raaf 7:180]
This is part of perfect servitude to Him, may He be glorified, and shows complete need of Him. 
And Allah knows best.

Part 1 Interview with Aishat Akande

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Sururah: Asalam Alaekum Warahmatulah Wabarakatuh, Introduce Yourself pls
Aisha Akande: Walaekum Salam Warahmatulah Wabarakatuh, My name is Akande Aishat Modupe, from Osun state, first in a family of 7,  I'm 24 years old, 1.68m tall and 58kg in weight. Sururah: What do you do
Aisha Akande: I'm  a pharmacist , finished from Obafemi Awolowo University, Ile ife,  Osun State.                                                                         Sururah :What are your likes and dislikes.            Aisha Akande :  I like straight forward,  honesty,  creativity and  organised people or places, dislikes are liars and arrogant people.
Sururah: What defines a muslim gathering , From Your perspective
Aisha Akande: From my perspective,  a Muslim gathering is one that constantly reminds one of the values of  Islam and a Muslim. A platform that  gives one the opportunity to create or strengthen the bond with Allah in any form permissible within the confines of Islam.
Sururah: What's Your Favorite Quran Chapter / Verse and why
Aisha Akande: My favourite Quran chapter is Suratul Duhaa,  because of the circumstances behind it's revelation and often times, I feel like that. I read the chapter at least once in my 5 obligatory prayers
Aisha Akande: My favourite Verse is d infamous Verse of the throne (Ayat Kursiy)
Aisha Akande: because of the numerous benefits attached to it and I find it handy most of the time
Sururah: What's Your Favorite Hadith
Aisha Akande: Actions shall be judged according to intentions
Aisha Akande: Hadith number 1 of An Nawawi's collection

Part 2 Interview With Aishat Akande

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Sururah: What do you think its one of the challenges Muslims are facing today in the world.
Aisha Akande: People mistaking Islam with violence and terrorism
Sururah: How can we correct that
Aisha Akande: By going back to the rudiments of Islam, I mean practicing Islam like our Prophet  (SAW )  practiced it
Aisha Akande: Islam teaches us to be kind, loving and gentle, Even towards the non muslims
Aisha Akande: We can only correct it with our actions and I believe that Almighty Allah will crown the Ummah's effort with success, We should also learn to use the media to our advantage as it is the most powerful tool available now, it can either make or  mar our reputation
Sururah: Sis Aisha, what has Islam taught you...
Aisha Akande: One basic thing, no matter how fast you run in this world,  you can never run faster than what has been decreed for you.  If you want more, Worship Allah more, and you will have more.
Sururah: Beautiful piece
Sururah: How do you talk to your creator
Aisha Akande: I don't talk to him
Aisha Akande: I converse with him
Aisha Akande: Like I can see him, like he is with me
Aisha Akande: In the permissible ways the prophet  ( SAW ) taught us
Aisha Akande: Allah said he is closer to us than our jugular vein
Aisha Akande: So I believe he is right where I am and I converse with him and ask him for directions and guidance even in the littlest of things.
Sururah: A quote that defines you
Aisha Akande: My Impact will never go blue but ever green
Aisha Akande: And a favourite one
Aisha Akande: 'Great people are ordinary people with extraordinary determination'
Aisha Akande: Practice Islam as it was revealed,  don't add or remove.                                                         
Aisha Akande: Islam is a complete religion
surura: What have you learnt from deen talks Nigeria so far
Aisha Akande: Ohhh, I have learnt so much about my deen, It's also a platform where you can get correct answers to whatever you are not clear about as regards the deen based on Quran and Hadith, A place full of Islamic Gurus
Sururah: Where Do You Expect to see the platform in the future
Aisha Akande: I expect to see it all around the world, bigger than this
Aisha Akande: With people from all over d world sharing ideas and opinions on how to move the deen forward
Sururah: Advice on how to be a better platform for everyone
Aisha Akande: I know people in the platform are different  with varying levels of Taqwa.  We should try to encourage the ones we perceive as being on lower levels, encourage with love and kindness instead of making the deen sound difficult
Aisha Akande: Islam is not a  difficult religion,  let's make the platform friendly for people with varying levels of faith
Aisha Akande: Then, we can help ourselves steadily up the ladder without fatigue.                                                            Sururah: Good, Jazakumllahu Khairan and thanks for your time and patience,
Aisha Akande: Alhamdulilah , wa antum fa jazakumllahu khairahn

Al-Muhaymin – The Protector & Overseer

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Allah calls Himself Al-Muhaymin— The Guardian, The Witness, The Overseer — on one occasion in the Quran. He is the One who ensures the wellbeinge of creation. Al-Muhaymin observes, guards, and protects His creation!
The Overseer, Protector and Guardian
Muhaymin comes from the root haa-meem-noon , which points to three main meanings. The first main meaning is to oversee, protect, and guard, and the second is to witness. The third main meaning is to determine the truth.
This root appears two times in the Quran in one derived form. Examples of this form are wamuhayminan (“and a guardian”) and al-muhayminu (“the Guardian”).
Linguistically, the root of muhaymin also means to extend a wing, like a hen protecting her chicks, and is related to the names Ar-Raqeeb (the Watcher), al Haafidh (The One who protects and guards), and Ash-Shaheed (The Witness). Al-Muhaymin is the One who observes, controls, looks after, completely covers us and judges us by the truth.
Al-Muhaymin Himself says: He is Allah , other than whom there is no deity, the Sovereign, the Pure, The Perfection, the Bestower of Faith, the Overseer. [Quran, 59:23]
The Quran is called ‘muhaymin’
Allah ‘azza wa jal calls the Quran muhaymin: And We have sent down to you the Book in truth, confirming the Scripture that came before it and muhaymin (trustworthy in highness and a witness) over it. [Quran, 5:48] After mentioning the position of His Book Allah Al-Muhaymin instructs to make use of it: so judge between them with what Allah has sent down. [Quran, 5:48] The Quran is to be recited and memorized as well as to be applied in our daily life situations, such as judging between right and wrong in our relationship with Allah ‘azza wa jall and other people.
How can you live by this name?
1. Be aware that Al-Muhaymin is watching you.
The Prophet salallahu ‘alayhi wa sallam said: Be mindful of Allah and Allah will protect you. [at Tirmidhee] Al-Muhaymin sees every deed you do; He observes your reactions to situations and even witnesses your inner thoughts. Remind yourself constantly of this fact and let it motivate you to stay away from sins and temptations. Al-Muhaymin will protect you from harm and even from committing sins if you are mindful of Him and keep remembering Him in your actions.
2. Accept the decree.
Believe with certainty that whatever Allah al-Muhaymin gives to you or keeps away from you is good for you, even though it does not always seem like it. He ‘azza wa jall is overseeing everything and everything is part of His plan. Complaining about your looks, about others’ belongings, about missed opportinuties, etcetera, are signs you have to strengthen your faith in Al-Muhaymin.
Accepting and being content with His qadr (decree) will be your true key to the tranquillity (saakinah) in your heart that you are so badly longing for but cannot find in anything else in this whole wide world.
3. Use the Quran, the muhaymin!
Don’t just read the Quran— interact with it, implement it, and memorize it. The Quran is muhaymin, trustworthy in highness, and a witness. The Prophet salallahu ‘alayhi wa sallam said: Verily, Allah elevates some people with this Quran and abases others. [Muslim] That is, those who fulfil the rights of the Quran will be raised high in this world and in the hereafter; those who leave it will be put down. Make the Quran a witness for you and not against you.
4. Ask Al-Muhaymin.
Indeed the deen of Islam is itself manners, where anyone that surpasses you in manners, is better than you in deen. [Ibn al-Qayyim] While working on your character, never think you cannot change for the better, and ask Al-Muhaymin to help you. Ask Him to protect you from your own desires and weaknesses. Imagine the protection of a hen for her chicks and know that Al-Muhaymin’s protection for you is beyond limits, so whenever you are in a difficult situation, you are scared, or feel lost, invoke Allah using this name.
5. Protect your heart.
The Prophet salallahu ‘alayhi wa sallam said: There is a piece of flesh in the body if it becomes good (reformed) the whole body becomes good but if it gets spoilt the whole body gets spoilt and that is the heart. [Al-Bukharee] Your heart is one of the greatest trusts given to you by Al-Muhaymin and it will be your most important witness when you stand before Him, so protect your heart.
How? Gain knowledge about the types of diseases mentioned in the Quran and Sunnah and their symptoms, assess yourself, and then seek the cure. Scholars mentioned four of the greatest poisons of the heart as: unnecessary talking, unrestrained glances, too much food, and keeping bad company.
O Allah, Al-Muhaymin, we know that You are the One who ensures our well-being. Make us mindful of You in everything we do and aid us in accepting and being content with Your decree in good and bad times. Make the Quran our close companion and a witness for us, protect and cure our hearts from its diseases, and protect us at all times, against others and ourselves, in this life and in the Hereafter, ameen!
And Allah knows best.

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