*The 7 7 7 rules for parents*
Parents at times need reminding how to spend and value time with their children, it's important we understand how to support and value every second we have with our children, below is the simple 7 7 7 rule which will help....
*Age 0-7*
The age when the child will bond with you, let them play and enjoy life. Let them make mistakes but at the same time correct them with love and affection. Teach them daily duas at every stage so they may practise even when alone.
*Age 7-14*
This period is essential in the education of the child, ensure they start practicing their belief and understanding their purpose of life. Sit with them daily and guide them on daily Sunnats. Daily Islamic education is essential keeping in mind the love and affection whilst teaching them.
*Age 14-21*
As the child is now a teenager, you must now become a friend and show that you're the one who they can consult and talk to anytime. You cannot shout at them during this stage as this will drift them away from you, talk to them daily and ask what they have done all day. Keep reminding them of their purpose in life and to turn to the Almighty at any time of need.
As parents you are responsible for your child, you'll be questioned regarding their actions if you've not provided the education that was required, the important thing is to love and be there for them as today they can turn to anyone unfortunately.
May Almighty Allah protect us all.
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