Give Your Wife(s) Reason To Always Smile
Sexual pleasure is relative in individuals. Some women would enjoy intimacy 3 times a day or more, while others are quite content with once a fortnight, or even less! It all depends how long your sexual activity takes, how much pleasure and satisfaction it gives, and so forth.
Umar ibn Khattab (radiyallahu anhu) reckoned that a woman had the right to sex at least once every four days, while Imam Abu Talib al-Makki added that 'if he knows that she needs more, he is obliged to comply.' (Zabidi, Ithaf, V 373.))
The early Muslims regarded sexual prowess and the ability to satisfy a woman as being an essential part of manhood.
The niece of Aisha, a scholarly and beautiful woman called Aisha bint Talha, once married the pious Umar ibn Ubaydillah. On their wedding night he made love to her no fewer than seven times, so that when morning came, she told him: 'You are a perfect Muslim in every way, even in this!'
According to Imam al-Ghazali:
'When he has come to his orgasm (inzal), he should wait for his wife until she comes to her orgasm likewise; for her climax may well come slowly. If he arouses her desire, and then sits back from her, this will hurt her, and any disparity in their orgasms will certainly produce a sense of estrangement.
A simultaneous orgasm will be the most delightful for her, especially since her husband will be distracted by his own orgasm from her, and she will not therefore be afflicted by shyness.'
(Ihya, II, 46.)
Whenever you observe your wife is misbehaving and getting aggressive, it might be as result of some hormones that are over-reacting inside her due to lack of sexual satisfaction.
Brothers, please wake up to your primary matrimonial responsibilities. Your wife does not say 'yes sir' to you for saying sake, there must be a connected reason.
May Allaah give us the ability and strength to make our women respect us.
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