HOW DO YOU /WE TREAT OUR DECEASED
Truly we all miss our loved ones when they are gone, but are we still connected to them.....let's train our children, friends and loved ones for afterlife, Infact let's listen to more lectures together concerning the afterlife so that when we are long gone, their body and soul will still be attached to us, their soul will be attached to us in prayers and body will want to visit our graves to. Pray for us every week, at least once a month, it's only someone who love you truly that will do this for you, who knows maybe your sister /brother that you love dearly might not even be there once to pray for you, out of your 6 children who knows if it's only 3 that will be chanced to pay your Qabr a visit so as to pray for you, who knows.
STOP keeping malice with the deceased based on issues that happened during their lifetime, forgive and let go, you will be amazed at the reward from your Lord.
Let's reshuffle our cycle, re plan and make sure that no matter how big/small our cycle is we have people who remind each other and act upon the good deeds we see, read and hear.
It's Sunnah to visit the Graveyard, Hospital and Prison, don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
Let's revive the sunnah together
Now, When people tell you they love you, the usual adage is watch how they treat other people right, I will like to add to it, that you should watch how they treat their loved ones who are dead , then you will know how they might treat you when you depart this world......
It's so painful that some children don't visit the graves of their parents, yet they want their children to read Quran often for them, seek istigfar often, do Sadaqah often pray for them often when they are long forgotten under the ground....
May Allah grant us long life in good health and wealth so as to be good ambassadors of Islam always, Amin 🙏
